Every year during the holidays, you’ve probably seen the depressing reports about people who gain between 5 and 10 pounds over the holidays.
I’m not sure if this worries you or not, but a lot of people are terrified about getting fatter.
A study by the National Institute of Health found that this seasonal weight gain – even just a pound – is the kind of weight gain that most people don’t lose when the holidays are over; it simply adds to the weight that “sneaks up” on you as you get older.
People often wonder how it’s possible to wake up one morning at age 40 or 45 and “suddenly” they’re 30 pounds heavier – or more – than they were in college.
Of course, some people really do pack it on over the holidays, but whether it’s a pound or ten pounds, did you ever ask yourself why does holiday weight gain happen at all?
In previous years, I’ve asked my readers that question and here are some common answers:
Holiday Excuse Survey Says…
“I’m too busy over the holidays to even think about eating healthy.”
“I’m more stressed over the holidays, and the food is around, so I eat more.”
“I have at least three parties to attend and then there’s Christmas and New Year’s,
so it’s impossible to stay on a diet”
“No one can tell me not to enjoy myself over the holidays so I’m just going to eat whatever I want.”
These answers all have a few things in common:
“Either/Or” Thinking
First, they assume that you can EITHER get in better shape OR enjoy yourself, but not both, It has to be one or the other. The truth is, either/or thinking is crazy thinking and a great killer of healthy programs.
Second, these are all excuses or rationalizations. “I’m too busy” for example, is always an excuse. We all have the same amount of time – 24 hours a day – the real problem is, most people don’t make exercise and healthy eating a priority.
Third, none of these are the real reasons most people gain weight over the holidays to begin with. The real reason is because an intention was never set for the opposite: To get in better shape over the holidays.
The truth of the matter is: most people actually set a “goal” to get in worse shape over the holidays. That sounds crazy, but true! It’s not conscious, of course, as few people would intentionally set out to get fatter. They simply do it by default. In their minds, they accept that it must be just about impossible to stay in shape, so why bother?
Even though we are half-way through the Holidays —
what would happen if you SET A GOAL TO GET IN BETTER SHAPE
over the rest of the holidays?
What would happen if you decided that it was not an all or nothing proposition and that you could enjoy the holidays and get in better shape at the same time?
And what if you decided that your health and your body were the highest priorities in your life, because you realized that can’t enjoy anything else in life, including family or holidays, if you don’t feel good?
Here’s what would happen: You’d get in better shape!
The idea that you can EITHER enjoy the holidays OR stay in shape – but not both – is wrong, it’s damaging and it’s limiting. Life is not an either/or proposition; it’s a matter of balance.
Success does not mean going to extremes. Success can be a simple matter of re-examining your beliefs, rearranging your priorities, setting goals, changing the questions you ask yourself and re-evaluating your expectations.
So what are you expecting for the New Year ? Are you expecting success? Are you expecting to be in better shape after holiday parties, celebrations, dinners, and desserts? If not, why not? What’s preventing you from enjoying all of the above and still getting in better shape? Do you have a limiting belief which dictates that it’s one or the other? Could it be that you never set a goal, intention or expectation to do it? Could it be that you’re rationalizing or making excuses? If so, then I challenge you to change it this year.
As of this writing, there is less than 1 week until the end of the year. Why not see how much you can improve your behaviors over the holidays, without depriving yourself of any holiday enjoyments or festivities? Just change your expectations. Change your nutrition. Change your thinking. Change your actions.
Accept the Holiday Health challenge and see what happens! And let me know!
All the best to you and your family, and I wish you a Very Happy New Year —
May 2011 be even better than you could imagine!
Diane
Diane Edwards
Edwards Hypnotherapy
www.DianeEdwards.com
www.HypnoBandSanDiego.com







